Thursday, August 09, 2007

Joviality

I called my mom this morning. After that, I couldn't hide the smile away from my face. I am really happy today, I have a jubilant mood after hearing the news from my mom. My big brother is getting married in this coming October. It's shocking and definitely unexpected. But, it's a good news, isn't it?

I have that kind of love and hate relationship with my big brother. He hated me to death when we were young. We couldn't get along at all and he used to punch me on my face. (No Kidding, seriously.) Once, he used a pencil to stab me until my knee bled. My body was always in the state of black and blue due to his AWESOME treatment. My mom punished him thousands times over for being brutal to me, but he didn't seem to care. He would beat me up first and then later get beaten up by my mom. I told you guys, he freaking hated me. I used to think that he secretly bearing a plan to kill me. Yes, that was ours relationship. I bore grudges toward him and we didn't had any contact with each other for years as he moved to my grandparent's house for good and had stayed there for years.

Though, people do change. After I got into college, out of the blue, we started talking to each other. I don't know why, maybe it was because we didn't get to see each other that much and both of us had finally grown up. He would call me when I was in the capital city on his sleepless nights, telling me craps which made me laugh my ass off. We went out for supper sometimes and he tried to go home more often to visit the whole family. He grumbled to me about his previous girlfriend and also all sorts of weird friend he had. How things changed, it was totally amazing. Then, 2 years ago, after moving to a new house, he moved back and stayed with us. Since then, we were so close to each other. We shared a lot of secrets and he would always give me a call, asking me what I wanted to have for lunch when I was having my term break at home. My silly brother would even drag me to his room, showing me his wide collection of pornographic DVDs (0_o. I am sorry, it's true though. Yes, he is my brother..) I definitely miss the days where he urged me to see him playing his PS2 games. He was like a kid, wanting to show her little sister his talent in that. Silly boy. :)

Ohya, for those who had never seen my brother before, here's a link. I had a blog about him years ago.
My brother's recipe: 'Hokkien Flour Cake'. Haha. I told you guys, Yes, he's nuts. But this Nutty Head is going to be a DADDY! I couldn't believe it! He loves kids and had been telling me that he wants to become a father before 30, now his dream comes true! AWESOME.

Unfortunately, due to my Visa status, classes to attend and economic reason, it's impossible for me to fly back home for his wedding.It's a shame. I am his only little sister. I used to dream of attending his Chinese wedding, seeing him and his wife serving tea to my parents, it's really a fat hope right now... :(

*sigh. Never mind. Things' never going to be perfect. Brother Teck, I have never said that, but seriously, I love you. :) You are the best brother ever even though you screwed up my childhood. When we were really young, we used to have a little bit of good time. Do you still remember that? In the evening, before dinner time, we used to explore the little garden in front of our first old house? You always dug out all those disgusting squashy worms and threw them at me, making your little sister screamed like crazy and you laughed hysterically beside? You are naughty, Teck. :)

I don't know when will I see you again. Don't worry about that, I will ask for yours photos from the wedding album and show all my friends how pretty my sister-in-law is. :) She will be an awesome mommy cause she's as kind as an angel. We all love her. Mom told me that when I got home, I will have one niece or nephew calling me 'Gu Gu'. That's weird. I will be an aunt for a cute little stranger next year. Oh man, I couldn't believe it!

Hey, Brother and sister-in-law, may your life be blessed with bliss. :) I really miss you all. I am really in a extremely joyous state after knowing that. God bless you guys...

GOSH, I can't stop thinking about the little angel, a girl or a boy? I know you like boy, but, NOPE, your sister wants a niece, not a nephew. :P hahah. Sister-in-law, born me a niece. :P hehe.. I know, still a long way to go but I start imagine how he or she is going to look like... like this?Awww..

Damn, I am really excited! I felt like crying! My brother is getting married and going to have a baby. I can't take it as I have all those youthful memories of my brother in my mind...

I will pray for you guys. Love you all. :)

I am happy, I really do.

7 comments:

Chloe said...

WOW!!!!!! Congrats!!! Am so happy for you - erm, I sounded like you're getting married, right? Hahaha, anyway, congrats again and your brother has all of our blessings :D

p/s: So when's your turn?

tash said...

CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm looking forward for my bro's wedding too..but i did tell him to inform me earlier not to prepare gifts but to lose weight so that i dun look like a pig on that happy nite.. :P hehehe

season said...

chloe,
haha. :p Actually, I feel like it were me who were getting married, too. I felt sooo happy. It's really hard to describe in words. I am still excited about it. Awesome. Too bad, I cant attend their wedding, my sister-in-law is really pretty, i will show the pictures later. :) She's going to be a mommy, she will the greatest mom in this world. haha, me getting married? hmm.. single now, waiting for you to introduce some nice guy to me, can ar??

HEY! UPDATE YOUR BLOG!! jeeze!! UPDATE NOW!

Tash,
thanks.. :) hahah.. I wanna look pretty on my brother's wedding day too. I dont even have the chance. They will be having their wedding in this coming OCT. It's impossible for me to fly back to Malaysia.*sigh... they just need to get it done in a hurry.. :( never mind. haha. I will buy them a gift..that's all I can do.. hahah.. when u want to get married, TELL me ok?? I will try to attend your wedding!

:P

lampfly said...

hoho, soon you are going to be aunty! So happy for you and your family!!:)

season said...

chenchien,
thanks.. :P it's really a good news. :) I am SO happy. but i really feel like attending their wedding.. *sigh.. they should have kid at this time.. cant even wait for me. :( anyways, thank you. :P wish you good luck in job hunting. muaks

EAN said...

hey.. congrats!! i feel happy when i read about it too. i just love weddings.

season said...

ean,

thank you. :) I don't really like wedding. but i love my brother's. :P too bad, I cant even attend the wedding i love this time.. *sigh. anyway, have a nice day. seeya.